A, no te e koe te whakatau i to outou mau metua: kia Pehea te roa ka koe e i roto i te hononga

Te hoatu i te hononga i te wa ki te riro i te tuatahi

Ki te mea ko te hononga kei te haere i te pai, kia whakatau koe ki ētahi wāhi ki te whakamōhio ki a koutou hoa ki to outou mau metuaEngari me pēhea te tīmatanga ko te reira mo te matua-hui kaiako? He reira tetahi mea, ka taea e koe te mahi ki te hanga i tino i te hui haere pai?"Ko te reira i tetahi mea i to koutou hoa ka taea e te mahi i te? Kahore he tino kahore papû whakahoki ki te pātai o te, no te kia koe te pupuri koutou ētahi atu whai kiko ana"te matua hui". Heoi, i reira ko te mea ruarua ki te whakaaro: e Kore e whakaaro te tangata kua tūpono tutaki ki to outou mau metua. Ki te mana, i roto i te hononga ki te tangata, ko te kupu whakataki taea e te kino i te metua i roto i te rua ara.

A, no te kia toku hoa makona oku metua? Here te pehea, ki te mea kei rite koutou Tetahi take he aha e kore e tomo i te tüao rā ki te utuafare, hoa, ko e reira ka tukua he kupu e pā ana ki whakamā mo te tangata e koe Teiti.

E tatou ranei e matou e kore e tupurangi? Ki te hiahia koe i nga mea katoa ki te kia mahi ka rite ki mua, ko te matua koe te tiro i ta te kore. A, ki te hiahia koe ki te tiki i te nui atu, te tiaki tamariki kau hitching te kata i roto i te mua o te hoiho.

Kaua e whakawehi tou hoa tūao.

I reira ko te utu wā mō te hui

Ko te tūmanako tiketike rawa? A, no te koe e i roto i te hononga, ki te whakatau ki te whakamōhio ki a Koutou hoa ki To outou mau metua tei nui i runga i nga whakaaro, me te tino o nga hononga i runga i te arbitrariness o To outou mau metua. Toku metua e te tino nui. Ki te whai ahau ki te kawe mai i te tangata te kāinga ki te utu i a ratou, ko te mea nui mō te tangata. Mai ahau e mohio i tenei, e hiahia ana ahau i te tangata ki te whakamōhio i toku metua anake, ki te te hononga ko te tino nui. I te anga ke, ahau te whai i te whanaungatanga ki te iwi nei te mau metua e nui atu e māhorahora. Ka tutaki i to ratou mau metua, no te te hononga tonu te tino hou. ratou noa, engari ko te fakaafe ki te whakatau i toku ngā mātua, ko te e whakahoutia. A, no te ahau faataa e ahau anake te whakauru i te hoa ki te mau metua ki te hononga ko te tino nui, te tangata, te tahi mau taime mau hara. Kia mataara,"No te tangata te ariki o te wāhanga"te wahi i a Rahera ui dev ki te whakatau i a ia Indian te mau metua. Kahore, te reira tika katoa. Ki te koe whakama, e kore ahau e hiahia ana koe ki te mahi i tetahi mea e kore koutou e hiahia ana ki te mahi. Engari i te reira e hanga ki ahau ite rite a koutou kei whakama ahau te tahi mea ranei. Titiro, te mea rerekē, te pai? Ki te koe i te taata ma, me te koe i te Teití, te tangata, te karanga tika o koutou ngā mātua, me te korero ki a ratou,"Hey, i'm Dating tenei tangata, a ka mea ahau,"Aue, te nui."Fakaafe'i e ahau ki a ia i roto i, me te whangai ia ia, ano he heihei ki te dumplings. Tetahi tohu mārama e i teie nei, ko te wa pai ki te whakatau ia koutou mātua, ka Rite ki to outou utuafare e te mau metua? Ka aroha ratou i to koutou hoa rawa nui i muri i te hui a koutou? Ako ahau i runga i te tīmatanga e toku whaea i te kōwhiringa o marena ki toku hoa. Ki te te tamaiti i tino ataahua, maramarama, me te whai mana, e ia rave e pā ana ki te reira. I te tuatahi, i reira e kia pai ki a ia kia hiahia i roto i te toku aroha ki te moni. Engari, ina, kaua ranei, i te hononga, ka tahuri kawa, ua ite au i te mate nui. Ko te mate e kua ara nui ki toku teina, i hanga hoa ki a ia, rite i roto i te hoa poitūkohu. E kore koe e hiahia to outou utuafare, ki te kia ki te Koni, no te mea o te mahuetanga kino.

He aha e kore e taea e koe te hanga i te reira te mahi ki tenei na e? A, ki a koutou ko o koutou matua i hoa i roto i te kotahitanga, e kore ratou e hiahia ki te waiho i te utuafare katoa, ki te ranei a, no te te hononga pito.

Kia pehea te nui e titiro koe rite ki to outou mau metua? Do you kaupapa rite kaha, me te ngā o te tirohanga, ranei he reira he koi te rerekē i waenganui ia koutou, me a ratou? Ki te kahore he he koi te rerekē, kia tango koe i muri ki te tā i to outou auraa i mua i te whakatau ia koe koutou ngā mātua. Katoa te wa pau tahi ko te wa pau pohehe te aromātai i te hoa. E rite koe ki a ratou?"Te ite koe pai, no te e koe ki te ki a ratou? Ka taea e koe te aro ki te mea, e kore koutou e rite ranei? Ki te mea ko koe e tohu ana i tō whānau rawa hohoro, me te mea e kore e te haere i te pai, o tou hoa ngākau nuitanga kia nui atu ki te hononga kua whai kaha. Pehea koe e mohio ki te aroha koutou te tangata? Na kia amo i te e koe e kua whakaaro katoa o tenei, a faaoti e te reira te wa ki te whakamōhio ki a koutou ngā mātua ki te to koutou hoa. Anei ētahi tohutohu ki te hanga i mohio he OK: waimarie Pai, me te tumanako ahau, he tohutohu nui. Kaua e wareware ki te hoki mai, me te korero ki a matou he aha te mahi hoki koe. Hi, Laura, e kore e whakaaro ahau i reira, e taea te waiho i te ao i te whakautu ki tēnei pātai. Whakaaro ahau i te reira, tei runga i maha ngā āhuatanga. Hei tauira, ki te mea ko koe i roto i te kura nui, kia hiahia ana koe ki te whakatutuki i o koutou ngā mātua super wawe ki te tiki i te whakaaetanga ki te rā. Ko te taua pā ki te hunga e no ki te tuku iho, te faaroo, te utuafare. Te mana'o, e koe, e te pakeke, e kore e te taiohi, hiahia mea ahau te marama i roto i te tei runga i te huru, ratou e taea e tino roa, ranei poto. Ko tenei, he tupurangi te whana i roto i te kaihe, nui te tamaiti? Ka tangohia te reira i rave rahi marama ki te kitea i roto i te ki te rite koe te tangata e kore e ranei. E mea pinepine, i muri i te marama o te tapa'oraa, i ahau e whakatau i te tangata kihai nei i pai i roto i te tino pai ki toku ora, ahakoa ka mau te reira i ahau e rave rahi marama ki te karanga i a ia nga tangata katoa i roto i te whare. Oia atoa, ki te mea he marama torutoru i muri mai, i mohio ahau ki e te reira i ngā waka i ahau, a ka e tīmata ahau te whakaaro atu fakamātoato, ki te ahau kihai i mahia. Rite hoki te whakaminenga, tona metua ui ki a koutou i te tahi mau uiraa: e ite koe rite ki te whakatau i a ratou? Ki te kore, he aha e kore e? No te mea o te hononga e kore e he rite ano, ranei, no te mea i reira e te tahi mau āhuatanga whakatau e te kapewhiti e kore e whakawhirinaki i runga i te hononga? (pērā i te tauārai reo, ngā iwi, tōrangapū rerekētanga, aha.) Ki te muri, e to muri, na tenei ko te tahi mea e kia koe te aparau i ki tou hoa i te aroaro o te whakaminenga ki o koutou matua. E kore au e ahau Ahau te karo i a e kore e whakaroa to ratou taenga mai. Ui ano hoki koutou te taumau ki te nuinga o ona hoa e mohio to ratou mau metua i roto i te Whānui. Ahau tata i te titiro i te wa o te Tangata a te Ariki, a Dev faataa ki ahau i roto i te Indian hapu, e kore anake ko nga tangata katoa te whakatau ia koe i whakaurua ki to ratou mau metua, engari tupu te reira i roto i te ma i te mau utuafare. Ko te taua he tino pono hoki Muslim te mau utuafare. A, no te kawea matou ki a te tangata i te kāinga, kei te riro te reira e ki te whakaaro koe e pā ana ki te faaipoiporaa, me te kia nui. Otiia i roto i te maha mau utuafare, i reira te mea kahore he whakaaro e te mau metua e te Teití taku tamaiti.

Na tamata ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te aha te reira i te tikanga ki te whakatau i to outou mau metua i roto i tona ao.

Pea ko te tino tenei he mahi nui, ranei pea ko reira. Ano, kia tino mārama ki te mea ko koe e kore e rite hoki ia ki te whakatau i ki to outou mau metua. E mea ohie ki te he te te tangata ranei e taahia ki te kore koe e au te whakamārama he aha te mea wawe rawa. Te tutaki e ahau toku tane. Toku tane, te mau metua e te mutunga ki to tatou hononga, engari e te no te mea e ratou a noho ana ratou ki te tino tawhiti atu me te taunga ki a ratou te auraa te kati i te faaipoiporaa. Ite noa ki te tuku i ahau i te īmēra tika, me te homai ki ahau te ētahi atu pārongo āmiki e pā ana ki to koutou āhuatanga kia taea e ahau te hoatu ki a koe atu tohutohu motuhake. Waimarie pai, me te mauruuru no te whakapā ki a matou.

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